In your humble opinion, why does the narcissist mistake kindness for weakness in some people?

Because a narcissist puts on a front and is really a weak charactered person who is a very manipulative and has to play his or her mind games daily to make themselves feel good and yes they will come across as a lovely person when you first meet them as they are trying to work you out and see if they can eventually then take advantage of you and use you for their own manipulative needs I have been in a lot of situations when people have done that to me and I have been really nice to these people , the problem is that a narcissist is digging their own grave and playing a dangerous game because a good well rounded person who is secure in them self’s who has strength doesn’t need to feel that they are better than everyone one else so there is nothing for them to prove . But I know for a fact when I have been confronted by people like that they end up finding out the hard way as I will be polite and submissive and never anger quickly but if you are Going to be a narcissistic asshole to me I will let you know what’s up if it comes to blows so be it , but usually one or two good strikes to the head sorts a narcissist out as deep down they feel inferior to others they can’t be kind naturally it’s all a show to work you out and then if they think that they got you they then bully you for their own personal gain a narcissist has problems with their emotions and I don’t think they can actually feel or in touch with their spirit or soul , that’s why they mimic they act like really nice people they fool everybody and do bad things behind ur back e.g fuck ur wife rip you off in business deals talk shit about you and turn every one against you just so they can feel like they are smarter and superior to you , that’s why a narcissist likes to be around weaker charactered people than themself so they can manipulate late you and feel superior .I found men that like to bully people have narcissistic characteristics in them and I think quora has a lot of people like that here as they like to have sly goes at you when they post stuff and are never direct like I had them checking my military experience saying I was not in the army well I don’t give a fuck what you think ok I know what I have done even when I post about boxing you guys have sly digs at me and I know why as well to the ones that have hacked me ha ha I don’t live in computer land and I really don’t care what you think about me as your not in my physical life you hack my device because of what ? I what porn ? You try fuck my relationship up you steal fucking money from me dose it make you feel strong and superior cos your fucking with me ? Your all a bunch of weak fuckers mate who I bet could never confront a man face to face or even rob him so stick to fucking people over on ur computers ok it must make you feel like somebody really locking me out of my iOS on my device I know what ur all doing it’s cool I have my reasons for not doing anything about it ha ha you blocked me from calling apple security on my phone hey it’s easy to use somebody else’s phone to call them turn the wi fi on so they can connect to the phone and see were the breach is you fucking track me with my phone tracker you say Iam on crack and put it on google with my photo you talk shit about my girl get in on m private fantasy fuck I would never hack anyone or do wrong to a person that has done nothing to me fuck even try to say iam a fucking child molesterer bunch of weak insecure individuals I bet you wouldn’t come up to my face and say it cos ur all safe in different countries and the one peace of shit hacker that I confronted at his house called the cops typical hacker personality so yeah I even been hacked on quora and my pictures stolen and sent to young girls on the teen space you fucking assholes ur characters are really shit but you come across as nice people stick to ur computers and stealing pictures talking shit and defaming good people who you wish you could be but you can’t so stay in ur internet world were you have some power and control because that’s the only place you gona get it because in the real world your nothing I know fuck all about technology and I don’t really care I love the real world and helping people and doing the right thing and having a life that is not built on false confidence iam not rich but I work and do the right thing and have life experiences that when I post it , my knowledge you guys hate me as you wish you could do the things I’ve done , I respect men that are direct and will let you know what’s up that’s why I like fighters professional ones and that’s why I did the sport as it built my character and I can tell you now there are dickhead fighters out there that will use any excuse to have a knuckle but that’s easy you both clash touch each other up , I mean u crack on and when it’s over you shake hand go have a beer as there is respect after they see what ur made of and I think if all men were to do a fighting art or discipline they would be less domestic violence and a lot more respect for one another as you know ur place , I don’t hang around back stabers or liers as iam not used to it yeah women do that but when a man acts like that it disgust me as I was not raised like that I had to learn the hard way but it didn’t make me an evil person yeah I’ve done evil things but I have learned, strength is in kindness and helping the weaker person because you can and doing the right thing by people but hey there are gona be people that hate that ur a good person as they feel inferior to you so they want to make you look like shit as they could never have the strength you have so being vindictive manipulative so they use technology as they are good with computers or even writing books like an author very respected out there just like a trusted priest in the church that abuse children , the one that’s gona be evil is usually someone in a position of trust and respect they do that on purpose as they are weak and use a position of trust to take advantage of innocent nieave or mentally weaker people when really you should be protecting them so yeah I like to think of myself as well you computer guys seem to like wolfs and gang stalking and hanging in packs like the scary wolfs with the red eyes and sharp fangs ready to go and kill some sheep , we’ll have you herd of a saint benard the big dogs that rescue people and also protect sheep ??? Well I see my self as a Saint Bernard never a wolf that hangs in packs and goes hunting their prey , I stand back and when someone does the wrong thing I’ll be that guy that steps up to help when everyone else turns and runs , iam basically saying if you have strength or power being strong is in my opinion helping the ones struggling the on a who can’t speak up for themselfs strength is helping ur fellow man or woman that needs it life is hard helping someone in diffuculty because you can and have a good heart is what I believe is strong raising ur children the right way looking after ur wife and loved ones is a strength giving a fuck about others is a strength having good intentions and being honest to others is a strength being a good person is in my eyes deserve respect any person that showed me kindness I will have the upmost respect for them violent abuse people that try and stand over me or force their will on me , I will stand up to and not back down from iam secure in my self and feeling a good person is worth their weight in gold as there are not to many genuine people out there and when I meet a good person with a good heart it makes me feel happy as I put my faith back into human kind and I know as a race of humans living on this earth we will eventually accend to grate heights and hopefully we can all unite and stop the shit in this world and like Michael Jackson sang , make the world a better place oh and someone said why do people on quora say I hope that helps at the end of a post well I’ll tell ya it’s because I hope it fucking helps people and I always encourage people on this site there will always be people who block ur replies even pretend to be you but will silence you as you would most probably have the majority of people on ur side because of the way you treat others so all you wolf out there use ur strength for good because one day there will be a Saint Bernard standing in front of you that will rip you to pieces oh but hey you wolfs hang in packs so like in real life the Saint Bernard will rumble with the pack just like ur mates the hiena always hang in packs so you have the advantage thank you good people I hope this helps you be ur best do good